My dear one DesertSister I just found out today about the tragic loss of your son. Be assured of prayers going out to you and the family and also for the soul of your dear son, David. My heart aches for you . My deepest sympathy and sorrow for you and the family at this most terrible and sad time. I will put your son in the Paten at Mass and put you and the family in the chalice. May our Sorrowful Mother hold you close to her loving heart and give you peace. May God grant him entrance into His heavenly home.