I went to the bible and looked up Gen 19. In it, it talks about Sodom and Gomorrah and how God feels about it. I had a nephew who could not deal with the fact he was gay and as a result commited suicide. He knew it was wrong yet he could not deal with how he felt. If he had only asked for help he might be here today. After he died I talked to a priest about the fact he took his life. I knew it was a sin,would God condem him for his transgression? The priest was not sure but he said that suicide is not a rational decesion and maybe if he was trully sorry God would forgive him. Whether you are taking about Bisexuality or masturbation it is wrong morally ans well as spiritually. No matter what society tells you remember wright is wright and wrong is wrong. Satan knows your weaknes. Keep praying that God will give you the strengt and grace to overcome this . You would not want to do anything that would harm your wife spiritually, emotionally or physically. You cannot do this all by yourself. Ask your priest for books that could give you some answers,counselling or some other advise. The best advice I could give you would be to pray. God will not only hear your prayer he will also answer it. You will know it is God when you hear the soft whisper of His voice in your head. You will know it is God when the answer is so simple or if the answer is not something you would not have ever thought of. I hope that this helps. Keep in touch,Keep praying and love your wife as God loves you.
High everyone I am new. Jean 1964. Cradle Catholic forever. Left when I was 13 and came back eighteen years later around 2000. It was time and a necessary journey. Im glad to be back and I hope I take advantage of everything SHE the BRIDE has to offer.
Love in Christ brothers and sisters.