If anyone is being "pestered", it is me, with no less than 5 people ganging up to make false accusations against me. I did not pester or harass anyone, nor question anyone's motives, nor do anything rude or ungentlemanly. much less claim that anyone is not being faithful to his vows or to the Gospel. I merely asked joandarc2008 a question whether it's tasteless to put on her signature the number of days since her "annulment process" started. If you don't want anyone to ask you questions about something in your life, then don't post about it in an internet forum.
As for "without even knowing her" if (which I doubt) you 2 know her in real life as opposed to knowing her via CAF the same way I and everyone lese does who is a member of CAF, well that is an unusual situation and totally irrelevant. The purpose of uinternet fora is to allow people to communicate who don't know each other in real life.
Just search my name - it has been ongoing for the last year. As I said it is about bearing witness to the vows even in times of difficulty. My reasoning was not that I am the only one doing it - it was an observation as I was the only one you are harassing and it is only after I shut your views down on another thread. So peace be with you and go away.
You may think it tasteless - but then again that shows you have not read the threads. It is more a sign of freedom. I am still living my vows which if you had asked as others have instead of judged outright you would know - that is what living the Gospel is about - not just doing it when it is easy but when it is the most difficult. And by the way I am not the only one doing this.