Originally Posted by sandracreswell
Really??????????? I've got a lot of living left to do...........how do i know if i'll ever remarry? no one knows the future............I never said "I have no intention of remarrying"...............I'm finished with this site...........please don't replay.
I'm with you. If I were in your position and considered the marriage valid
and always intended to live accordingly, I'd not ask for a decree, but if I considered the marriage invalid
, after all, I'd want the decree saying so....not just because I might need to "use" it, but because I'd want that answer. I'd want to know whether to consider myself married or not!
You are free to do what you think is right, though, especially since you've done your homework, have clergy you can talk to if you need to, and can make an informed decision for yourself. You don't need us!