Originally Posted by Armor of Light
Uhh...Yes I know. It just seems that we men are the cheaters.
Yes, yes, I know many now who assume that women are almost always the seduced, and not the seducers. There was a time when the prejudice went the other way. Both views are far too one-sided. Either gender can seduce, and either gender can use that flattering seduction as an excuse to do what they know is a grave betrayal of someone who ought to be able to trust in their love and fidelity entirely. Even if one or both of the illicit lovers are not married to anyone else, they at least betray God, not to mention the spouse they might marry in the future. If either is married, they both together betray God's plan for marriage, as well. The married person who falls is not the most guilty, but he does cause the most damage to the innocent. The only thing that might be worse is when either of the fallen is a priest or a consecrated religious, but especially a pastor of souls. Repentance is possible, but that is so much painful damage to repair.