Originally Posted by yearnforpeace
Just wondering if anyone else out there has read Christopher West's book The Good News about Sex and Marriage. I am now filled with more anxiety because I do not think we have been doing "what we are suppose to" how we are suppose to if you understand my meaning. I wish there was a spot on here to talk frankly about the intimate "stuff" Now I am feeling like I am committing a mortal sin if we can't get it right. Just curious how everyone else deals with the whole how sex is suppose to be thing. Sometimes bodies just don't exactly respond how they are suppose to I guess. Thanks for your input I am really freaked out about this.
We read CW's books and loved them! ESP. GNASM!!! Yes, it made us realize we were doing things wrong and that our mind and sexual education have been seriously deformed but they also made us understand what can be changed, what should be changed, how to do it and the encouragement that sexual redemption is possible no matter how fallen you are.
Having said that, I can count on one hand the number of times love making was so awesomingly mystical..when we truly felt that in our union earth met heaven. And I think that is ok! I am not freaked out that we can't manage to do it every time, I am just extremely amazed to know that such an experience is even possible and it gives us something to strive and to long for. We would sure LOVE to relive that height of ecstasy every single time but I don't think it is possible,
I don't mind talking specifics through PM. Just so you know, I'm a female (still) in my twenties.