Re: I love my asexual wife
I suggest that she see a doctor,because having this low of a sex drive is not normal. If a physical medical issue is ruled out, then I would go to a therapist because it is probably psychological. Either way , you two should probably go to some sort of marital counseling together. It isn't right for you to go such long periods with no sex and deal with so much rejection from you wife.
You have obviously been hurt by this and she seems to not want to address the issue. I think it is important that you push for communication and counseling so you can begin to heal your marriage.