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Old Jan 11, '17, 5:19 pm
Katheresa Katheresa is offline
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Default What is Convalidation?


My husband and I are both Roman Catholic (practicing), but we were (legally) married in a Presbyterian church 18 years ago. Our children have been raised in the Roman Catholic Faith, and they attend a Catholic Elementary School. They have been baptized in the Catholic Church, as both my husband and I have.

About 2 years ago, my husband applied for an Annulment from his first wife (they married in the Catholic Church). We have fulfilled all our obligations for the application (forms submitted, interviews & evaluations completed, payments made in full). As it stands now, our application is on a judge's list waiting for a decision. If the Annulment is granted, we would like to have our marriage blessed in our Catholic Church.

However, in the meantime, one of our children is about to receive the Sacraments of Penance and Holy Eucharist. Because our marriage hasn't been blessed by the Catholic Church, we aren't able to receive Communion with our daughter. I recently saw something about a ceremony called a Convalidation. Could you tell me what this is? Could my husband and I have our marriage Convalidated while we wait for the results of the Annulment decision so we can receive the Holy Eucharist alongside our daughter on her special day?

Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thank you (in advance),

Old Jan 11, '17, 7:20 pm
Fr. Charles Grondin Fr. Charles Grondin is offline
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Default Re: Convalidation?

A convalidation is when someone has been married civilly but due to an impediment the marriage was invalid as a sacrament. The impediment must first be removed and the couple then makes a new exchange of vows to enter into a sacramental marriage.

The usual impediment would be what's called lack of canonical form, which is marrying outside the Church without permission. In such a situation a new exchange of vows is performed in the Catholic form in order to make it valid.

In the situation you describe, the impediments to be removed are twofold:
1. prior marriage bond (your husband's first marriage).
2, lack of canonical form (being married outside the Church, presuming you were Catholic at the time).

The annulment is what addresses the prior marriage bond. Until that prior marriage bond is declared null then nothing else can move forward.

The good news is that if the prior marriage is determined to be null, then the convalidation can take place fairly quickly.

The unfortunate news is that unless that determination is made prior to your child's first communion then there is nothing the local parish can do to address your situation.

Please don't feel discouraged, you are doing the right steps to address your situation and God willing it will be reach a solution soon.

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