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Old May 23, '05, 3:06 pm
snuffles snuffles is offline
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Default How do I best prepare for confession after being away for 43 years?

I've just starting going to church after being away for 43 years.

My question is what is the best way to go to confession? Should I state my sins in general terms and the number of times or should I use more explicit terms.

I've searched the web trying to get an idea as to the best way to handle this. The only thing I have came up with is that one should not be so graphic in describing your sins as to be an occasion of sin to the confessor.

Last edited by Peggy Frye; May 24, '05 at 9:58 am.
Old May 24, '05, 11:02 am
Peggy Frye Peggy Frye is offline
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Default Re: How do I best prepare for confession after being away for 43 years?

Welcome home! The best way to prepare for confession is to make a good examination of conscience (see link Guide to Confession). Sometimes itís helpful to jot down on paper all the mortal sins you can remember since your last confession. After so many years itís often difficult (or impossible) to remember all your mortal sins, but donít worry, the priest will help you.

Can. 988 ß1: "A member of the Christian faithful is obliged to confess in kind and number all grave sins committed after baptism and not yet remitted directly through the keys of the Church nor acknowledged in individual confession, of which the person has knowledge after diligent examination of conscience."

The obligation of the faithful to confess in kind and number all grave sins is not to encourage scrupulosity, but to help the priest make his judgment with sufficient knowledge.

And, remember, there is no sin you can commit that God is not willing and able to forgiveóall that is needed is true repentance and sorrow for sin. Call your parish office right now for times of scheduled confession, or make an appointment to speak with a priest. In the meantime, please know that I will remember you in my prayers. God bless you!


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