I need some serious help, my family just found out that my BIL was messing around on my sister, however it was with my other sister. Without gettting into too much detail we have figured this much. BIL got my sister to move into his house and told her he would take care of anything if it broke, before that she lived in my house and I was prepared to sign it over to her as soon as she was ready. She is a single mother with two kids and was looking for a change so I didn’t try too hard to talk her out of it. For the record she lived in my house for about 6 years and never paid the mortgage late she just never made enough for them to give her a mortgage. That is how it all started. My BIL is a control freak and unless you are around him long enough you may not see it. Over the years I suspected something not so much of an affair, but something and so when it came out of my mouth some years back. Over the last year it seemed that my sister who isn’t his wife was becoming more and more depressed as a matter of fact she wanted to kill herself, but somehow through the grace of God she came clean with us her brothers and sisters just not the sister who needs to know this. It turns out that he has been forcing her into unwanted you know what, and when we all listened to the story we came to the same conclusion while she should have come to us sooner he is a monster in need of many prayers.He for one carried a gun (cannot at least for 3 years now because sister had to get a restaint put on him) and for some reason he always has lots of money…BTW we are 9 mom and dad have passed on so this is pretty much all of our responsibilty and we are ready to tell unsuspecting sister, but are afraid only because since sister has taken most of his hostilty wife may start to become the prime target. I know what the moral thing to do is I was just hoping for any suggestions that may help.
Sorry this is so long it has been sitting on my shoulders for sometime now.
PS Many people will be devasted by this news and we just want to make sure we handle it with Gods love…