I am currently married and have been for about 8 years. We have 2 children together, 4 altogether. To make a long story short, for now, she has decided that since she has started to make her business grow, she wants to be her own person in that she wants to be able to go out, drink and basically do what she wants. She has been pretty much ignoring me, our talks are emotionless coming from her and to get her to just simply say she loves me has been a real task as of late. Ever since she started this growing of her business about 3 months ago I have noticed changes in her such as when she did have extra time or energy it was not devoted to me or the family, it was for facebook, or “talking” to other co-workers, etc. So I asked her about it and she said she did not notice and will try to do better with me.
Needless to say this has not improved and after several times me asking her “20 questions” several different times she has become very secretive, goes to visit family and goes out without letting me know what is going on even though we both agreed that there is no more hiding of anything.
We are in this dance that the harder I squeeze on trying to get answers she more she becomes secretive.
There is more to it than this but I just first want to see if anyone has experienced this from either point of view.
She is/was very big as a catholic but that has started to all but disappear since the business really started to grow about 3 months ago.