My brother has had a baby and is having him baptised.
My wife’s cousin who grew up like sisters, her daughter is having her first Holy communion.
Unfortunately they are on the same day in two different countries.
Impossible for us to go to both but my wife wants to go to first Holy communion and wants to take the children also.
I cannot let my brother down, it is his first baby which he waited a lifetime for and he was there at our marriage and our children’s baptism but my wife refuses to go.
Of all the days in the year I always end up with a dilemma like this.
What on earth do I do? I seem to be in a lose-lose situation.