Most of you know that I have asked many prayers for my sister and her kids from abuses from their dad and step mother. This was all under the thread of “kids going on visitation” one summer. Anyway, things are better in that the dad, my ex BIL, is allowing the kids to live in peace and is not forcing them to go to his house anymore for he has realized his new wife is crazy. He left her once, when she was injured on the job for she is a cop. He returned to her because of threats from her job’s boss. He is miserable. He lives in a separate room and is out of a job. He was fired for he was at home taking care of his wife, or she demanded it from him. He has been unemployed for 6 months now. He has lied so much to us and in court, but for some reason, I believe him now. He wants out of the marriage, but can’t go live anywhere else. His family is out of the question. He can’t afford to live in an appartment or anywhere for he has no income. He has to wait until his wife gives him money for gas and ask permission for it to see his kids. The wife has a problem with him seeing his own children and won’t give him gas money. She allowed him out of the house today for he had a job interview and after that he went to my sister’s house for dinner and a movie with the kids. My sister cooked for him. She said he looks like he is in clinical depression. He can’t think for himself. He is totally losted. No matter all the horrible things he did to my sister and his children and all he allowed his wife to do to his kids, we have all forgiven him.
I am asking you to pray that he will get a job soon. He wants one in his profession, a cop. He has an interview today at a local university. Please pray that he gets a job soon so that he can live this house and the way he is living. He wants a divorce. He realizes his wife is completely mentally ill now. He has apologized to my sister for all that he did and for not being able to pay child support. He has not paid his full child support for over 6 months. He gives her $50.00 to $100.00 some months, but now he has no money in his account anymore.
We hope and pray he is telling the truth and I pity him and his situation. I still love him for he was a nice BIL when married to my sister. Not a great father or husband, but a nice BIL.
Pray, for a job, any job and for his freedom from this woman that has such a hold on him. If he had a place to live, he would get out, but he needs money to do that.
Thanks. His name by the way is Angel.