…but I can’t figure out why.
I’m writing my exams this week, which is making me stressed because they are incredibly hard. I’m studying when I’m not writing them. DH comes home and asks whats for dinner. I say leftover spaghetti and he’s like “oh…”. So I offered to go to a restaruant because I just recieved gift cards and he says no, he wants to play his computer game. So i list off some options he says no to all of them. So finally I said, well, I’m gonna have spaghetti. He says “well what are you going to make me?”. I ask him why he assumes i’m gonna make it for him after every idea I presented he shot down? He just walked away. He offered to do the dishes last night, washed 4 or 5, leaving the rest of the counter undone, I ended up finishing they today. Ugh…there are so many things.
I finally just told him that I’m stressed from exams and feel like he’s taking me for granted. He told me that I only have 2 left, why should i be stressed.
I know that he doesn’t take me for granted, he does alot for me. But I guess what irks me is that he feels working 44 hours a week at his job is more stressful then what I do. I clean, cook, go to school full-time, work part-time, and manage the finances. I just wish there was a way for him to see how overwhelming it is for me.
I love him dearly, and I don’t want to fight with him. Maybe its just the stress this week that is making it bother me so much.
Does anyone have any suggestions?