I work at a company where if anything like that did happen, I could ask for a transfer to another store.
Tonight, I was contemplating it. Sometimes, just seeing or hearing her is enough to make me think that if I fell more for her, it’d be hard to continue working around her while remaining friends. I actually asked a manager what the nearest store other than the one I’m at would be and he was surprised that I was thinking about transferring. There’s a kind of running joke there that I’d never leave. I made the majority of my friends in my life there and I go there to hangout when I’m not working.
I’m not looking that far ahead in my life yet, as I feel as though I still have a lot of work to do on myself before jumping into another relationship.
May I ask how working with him started out? I assume you guys became friends and enjoyed it until one of you made a move? I have trouble with recognizing the difference between flirting and being friendly, especially with her. A few of my coworkers suggest flat out telling her that I like her. But I know that wouldn’t be the best decision knowing the current situation. Another coworker told me it can go one of three ways: I tell her that I like her and she accepts it, she rejects it, or we remain friends and we still have to work together with some feelings attached to it.
Thanks for your reply.