Hi all !
I need your help to understand what’s going on.
Some 4 months ago I met a seminarian at a religious event. I’m not even sure he’s not already a priest, but he was sent from Africa to study theology in my country and is still a student at uni.
We had a conversation then we exchanged phone numbers.
Then he called me and invited me to have lunch with him. There was another guy he had invited too, and we had lunch in the common dining room at his mother house with other people at the same table.
Since that time he has been sending me “hi / how are you/ what’s up ?” text messages.
To which I would answer: “I’m fine, how about you” and wait for him to say something substantial. I got bored with his texts and skipped a few without replying. Then he texted me twice today, and I answered that I didn’t like “hi how are you ?” texts, that I didn’t understand what he wanted and that I use texting to exchange information.
I need your help because I find it hard to read his behavior. Is he romantically interested in me ? I have trouble with social skills and cue reading. While we had lunch together, we discussed theology and intellectual issues, but he never brought up any intellectual subject in his texts. Just “hi, how are you?”, which I find difficult to understand.
Thank you so much !