My biggest problem with abortion is that people who are irresponsible, give into their lust and use it as a way to escape responsibility which is a big no no for me. In that case I think learning from your mistake instead of constantly terminating your pregnancies is something you learn from. So thats one reason I am against abortion.
My second reason is that while I have no intention of pre-marital sex at my age, if I did I just couldn’t imagine killing it. I feel awful that there are women out there who can’t have kids who want them badly and I have the chance to give them one. I’d much rather allow that baby to live with loving people who will take care of them better than I can. (Sorry if my grammar is a bit awkward its late) I hear how sad people are about terminating their children and I thats another reason I am against it.
I have several more reasons and i could write a book on why I am against abortion but I saw something. This video (youtube.com/watch?v=GQtN5JbmBrA) and it sort of made me think a little. haha thats sort of an understatement, but i did think a lot.
I wondered how I would feel to have someone watching me out my window. I get terrified just thinking about it right now. I would be just as horrified as she was. Then to get raped by the scary old man that was watching her I would be just as traumatized as her. Not to mention being pregnant with his child and getting chlamydia. Its one thing when you are fooling around with your guy friend but this is like a different story. A strange man who watches you change attacks you with a weapon and rapes you. I can only imagine how hard her life would be if she went with this pregnancy. The child of your attacker is growing inside you. Its sort of like the reverse virgin mary in a way.
If I have children I want to be married to a man that I love and thats how I want them to be brought into this world by the love of their mom and dad. It would kill me to have to bring a baby into the world like that. I would just think that it is my attacker inside me. When the baby is born my attacker will still be there and as a mother that would kill me.
I can’t imagine it being much better for the child either. If the child asks me who their father is I have three options 1) Say nothing 2) tell the truth 3) lie Quite frankly all of these have some sort of consequence. Often, lies have a bad habit of becoming truths and the child would resent me for lying when they discover the truth. The truth could crush the child knowing that a sick man raped his mother and that he wasn’t a planned baby. If that were me I would die on the inside. Saying nothing is just inviting the child to go find their father and theyd find him on the most wanted list or in prison. I could see this happening with adoption too.
Thats not to say that is the definite conclusion because I also believe that God makes things happen for a reason so maybe I was meant to a rape victim and have a child like that. Its cases like this that I really have no absolute answer. I am just wondering what you think l am looking forward to some opinions