I was reading NY1’s in the papers segment and I happend to see this article. I think it could be helpful.
I read through it and it’s (frankly) BS.
This is a biography of a gal who’s “used it”, then “denied it”, and then is finally figuring out that “it” isn’t really the sole purpose of a relationship. (and it seems that her choices of companions haven’t figured out what “it” is all about either!)
“It” is an incredible side-benefit to a healthy and complete relationship… not the core of one (regardless of religious discipline). In our camp “It” is an integral and necessary part of a complete Catholic marital relationship.