After I have convinced myself to be more firmer in my standards, I decided to sign up in an online dating site for Catholics (Catholic Match). I thought it was going to be easy as my dating pool is going to be narrowed and based on my Catholic faith. I realize now that its not as easy as I thought it was going to be. I am 26 now and still not very experienced in dating so I don’t know the mechanics in communicating with men very well. I would say I fall into the old fashioned category. I like men to initiate and I wouldn’t want a guy to assume that Im desperate of his attention or that Im too easy. Anyway, I am currently talking to someone right now and we’ve been texting a lot. He initiates most of the time but there were a couple of times that I did drop a “Hello” message. We haven’t met yet personally since he lives 2 hrs away from my city and we both are busy with school. He proposed that if things continue to go well, we’d meet in the summer.
Please pray for me
Sometimes I have no idea what to do and what to think. I realize now that being single at my age feels like being stuck in a stormy sea. I feel very naive and clueless sometimes. But I know God’s plans and ways are bigger than mine and all I have to do is trust Him. There are just times when I wish He’d show me the right direction whenever I feel very confused.