I found out on Tuesday that I am miscarrying for the third time. I am numb from the emotional pain of it all and so stressed out about miscarrying at home naturally or having a d&c. After my first miscarriage I had a d&c and almost bled to death afterwards, so naturally I really don't want to go through that again. I've also struggled with the very very very slight possibility that the d&c is what killed the baby, which is actually a pretty irrational thought based on the evidence of the u/s. However the idea that I may have killed my baby and didn't trust in God for a miracle still haunts me today.
I would have been 11 weeks today, does anyone have an experience of miscarrying naturally at home? I know this is probably a dumb question but do you do it over the toilet? That's the impression I've gotten but I'm scared of the baby going down the pipe before I can retrieve him/her!