I am 33, my wife is 29.
My consultant told me I will never have a child, not even with IVF.
The adoption process here is a nightmare, not only does it last years but they treat you like absolute dirt, I got in trouble with the police for a very minor offence when I was 18 and they go on and on about it, also as I have an illness they think I wouldn’t be able to cope with a child aswell.
What are they thinking, I don’t have an illness that confines me to a bed, to look at me or talk to me you would never know, most people don’t know but it is all on my shoulders, my wife is in perfect health, I work with ex prisoners that push out children one after the other and constantly complain about their children.
Imagine the worst job interview lasting for 8 hours every few weeks.
I think we will remain childless.