Last night, my brother was arrested at a road block for having a little bit of pot on him. I don’t need a lecture on how pot is bad. It’s not that kind of thread. My family has had several problems over the past couple of months and my disabled mother has been totally stressed. This was the straw that broke the camel’s back and her doctor has put her on anti-anxiety medication for the next 10 days.
My husband has offered to pay to bail him out of jail. I am thankful that my husband is so kind and generous, but I just don’t know. I don’t know if we should let him stay in and learn his lesson or what.
I’m worried that we may not see the money again. We bought him a ticket to go with us to a football game this season. We bought it in July and still haven’t received a dime of the money. I love my brother with all of my heart. This just breaks my heart. I’m so confused as to what to do. My grandmother thinks we may never see the money since we haven’t been paid for the football ticket yet. This thread makes it seem like he is a bad person, he really isn’t. He would give the shirt off his back if someone needed it. My mom had to get on to him the other day for buying people’s lunch just because they claim to have no money. These “friends” seem to never have any money. :rolleyes:
I am just lost. I keep going back and forth. One minute I want to bail him out, the next I feel like he should stay in. I am definitely in need for some good, honest advice. Thanks!
This is the first time he has ever been in serious trouble. If that helps.