I need advice.
my cousin always felt like my sister growing up. we were close. then we hit our teens and she decided she didn't like me anymore (she just stopped wanting to hang out, idk) guess we were just always different personalities.
this hurt my feeling a lot but still asked her to be my maid of honor several years ago. she said yes then ditched me in every way possible or made the situation about her. drama yada yada.
now she is getting married. she has always been (as far as I can tell) a practicing Sunday catholic :thumbsup: however marrying a non-catholic :shrug: outside of the church; he is not too religious. I told her mom she could try to get permission so it is legit or she will have to go through the process after to have it recognized.
everyone thinks this is none of my business.:whistle:
k well, I'm doing it bc I care about her, but apparently I am a jerk for infringing.
I feel like, oh well I tried. Idk if I should do anything further.
AND I am not sure if I should attend her wedding outside of the church (its also a bit of a drive)
I am obviously emotionally hurt / offended / saddened about our relationship so not sure if me not attending is more from caring she is falling away from the church or that she has hurt me in the past.
how do I handle this?? I am a mess.:hmmm: