I hope it is ok for me to ask for general advice. But I am hoping some of the parents on this forum can share some ideas of how to prepare yourself, your lifestyle, your finances to be better prepared to handle a new baby.
I wanted to start trying to have children but I just found out I need surgery. So I have to wait a little longer. I'm trying not to focus on the surgery or the fact my husband and I have to put off trying to have children. I am hoping I can do something "useful" with this time.
Sometimes I look around the house and see the dirty dishes, I feel regret that I don't spend enough time paying attention to the dogs and I wonder how in the world I think I could possibility be ready to be a mom.
Well, thank you for listening.