Hello ladies and gentlemen,
Thanks alot for having on this board. I was born and raise catholic.
At the moment I am clashing with my wife on some domestic/household issues. I told my wife that I don’t feel it’s necessary to work since I make a very good salary ( and I mean very good). I suggested it is more important that she focus more on the domestic front and be a homemaker. I also suggested that instead of chasing a career, she rather spend her time devoting herself to charitable causes and the community since she will never “want”. Anything she needs/wants I can pretty much get several times over and in abundance.
I also asked her to kindly ask or let me know of her plans and where she is going, since I as the man give her enough respect to tell her where I am, what I am doing and how long I will be.
She tells me I am being unreasonable and controlling.
Fair enough, I work extra hard to make sure that she will never desire anything and that anything she wants I can get.
After a few attempts I finally told her to do what she wants and I will say no more.
Are my being completely unreasonable? If I am, don’t be timid about telling me off.