Last night, my fiance tells me he’s found a room to rent - in an apartment with one guy and two girls. He thinks it would be great, because everyone’s friendly and around the same age, it’s not too expensive and it’s a very short drive to where he’s just landed his dream job.
Me, I’m a lot less than enthused about the idea of him living there. And I think he’s a little annoyed that I’m against it. He sees it as no different than living in a coed dorm.
Am I being unreasonable to want him to live with only guys? To think it’s wrong to live with women who are not family?
I ask this because I know I’m frustrated right now and I don’t want to take it out on him. (Long story short, because he had a shot at the dream job, I moved three states away from home and family to try to find a job near him. I can’t find anything in my field and will probably have to take a stop-gap job and commute an hour and a half each way to make ends meet. So when he argues for this apartment because it means a ten minute commute, as opposed to a 20 minute :rolleyes:, I get a little annoyed.)
Thanks for listening to my vent.
Love is Patient