As a new member I am not sure if I am doing all this correctly. In my day “state of the art” meant an electric typewritter. Here is my problem. My eldest son who is 34 is an alcholic who has shown violent trends toward myself and the rest of the family. He had a job and a place to live (nothing wonderful but he was making it). In anger he quit his job and supposedly got another one and was supposed to be living with some people he worked with. Apparently something went wrong and now he is after us, our other son, our soon to be ex son in law to take him in. A few months ago we let him stay with us for a few weeks. Well, he drank and didn’t respect our things or us and we had to make him leave. I felt so guilty and still do. But it seems the more we help him the worse he gets. I am disabled and me and my husband share a rental home with our daughter and her two children - to help her get on her feet. And she is doing great. My youngest son is doing great. Why this one has chosen a path like this is beyond me. He was raised Catholic and knows right from wrong but I am beginning to wonder if he knows right from left. I pray for him but is there anything else I could do? Will await replies God Bless All.