It’s quite shameful, but I have a history of moderate (but still horrible) porn addiction and masturbation multiple times a day. I no longer look at porn nor masturbate, although I do have lustful thoughts. When lying in bed (and throughout the day), I have thoughts of women.
However, I have never had intercourse with someone. (I also have not been on any dates in my whole life. I’m quite the loner.)
Am I still a virgin? I ask because apparently St. Thomas Aquinas would say no, whereas St. Augustine would say yes.
Thanks for any help.
God bless you.