Our 40+ year old daughter Jane is Catholic. Dick is non-Catholic. They were married by a Catholic priest but eventually divorced. Each remarried someone else. Jane divorced but Dick is still married and says he is GOING to be divorced. It appears that Dick and Jane are now living together as a couple. I believe it is wrong. No children for either.
First question: If true, is Jane sinning? I assume the Catholic marriage was and is valid.
My family and friends treat them as a couple and invite them to family get-togethers. I do not dislike Dick but because this situation seems wrong to me, I am not comfortable and cannot bring myself to invite Dick to my home with my daughter. This unwillingness is of concern to my wife and I am struggling with my judgementalism.
Second question: Am I totally wrong and thus sinning by this exclusion?
Lastly: I do not have a spiritual advisor and hope you might have some advice as to how I should treat Dick (as well as Jane) in this whole situation?
Thank you very much.