I’m amazed by the point of view some people have when it comes to divorce.
I’m out of a relationship with a woman who was divorced but not annulled. I wish that I could say that I ended it. I wish I could write that it was a deal-breaker and why I chose not to continue on. Ultimately, she ended it. I believe she sensed that I was uncomfortable with her status.
I long to be in a loving relationship which God will smile upon. At 48, I find myself resorting to dating sites. I’ve gone specifically to Catholic dating sites thinking that there would be a better understanding of the requirements, but that isn’t true.
I’ve communicated with Catholic woman who were listed as divorced. When I open communication with them, I ask: “I see you are divorced, but are you annulled? If not, would you be willing to do so for the right man?”
You’d be surprised at the answers. Most common: “I never thought about getting remarried so no, I’m not”.
Why don’t people get it?