So I had originally come here over a sexless marriage. That’s still a problem…Whats worse, now, is she wants to leave me. Every single time she’s ever threatened divorce or whatever, she’s now claiming that it was actually MYSELF that did all that! This is a complete fabrication!
I lined up a counselor to help and she’s refusing to see them. She’s wanting to move back home to her parents. She says that I’m a manipulator and that she won’t be sucked back in again…
I spoke to the counselor and they think it sounds like classic Paranoid Personality Disorder. She also believes that she’s being spied on and now it involves me and my family (we’ve hacked her phone or something).
I feel like I just want to die. How can someone pray to Mary and the Saints and all, yet completely distort the truth? Is it mental illness causing this? Demonic? Her parents agree with me but won’t speak up. Anyone that speaks up becomes the enemy and they are afraid that she’ll put them into the bad side.
How do I win here? She won’t talk to me or read anything that I write to her. I even hand wrote a letter to her. She wouldn’t pick it up, says that it’ll manipulate her into changing her mind again.
Despite constant prayer, she’s getting worse. I know that God could snap is fingers, so I’m trying to keep the faith. Im afraid that He’ll let the storm sink this boat. Sometimes I feel like marrying my wife was bad for her.
A fear that I have come to realize is that God may have never intended this marriage to go through and that is why it’s been a lot of hell for us. I was completely sure about her and us. She was going through some really bad stuff before the wedding. I think that she went through with it to get away from living with her parents. The father that married us saw some red flags but thought that they could be worked out later since we had dated for 12 years prior.
What do I do here? My heart wants to fight for the marriage. My brain says to give up. I haven’t been given peace from God for either.