“But perhaps also people just do not want to accept the Truth no matter what the method of delivery. Has that ever happened to you? Can you provide an example where we could communicate the Truth in a way that you think would have made the OP see things in a Holy manner? I’m all ears.”
I’ve learned over the years how best to communicate truth. Please go back and listen to this conversation.
This friend was brave enough to come here and share a very vulnerable situation. A husband and wife with 4 young children under 5 lost their home last year in addition to her job. They were both sexually abused at kids. She battles bulimia and they both battle alcohol addiction and PTSD. Yet, they are still trying to seek God in the midst of this grave struggle. (I stop and think of the situation and just imaging God embracing the situation with compassion) They are getting help. Yes, it is an awful situation but they are making progress.
Tina clearly states she asking for an opinion on whether ABC can be used in this situation at 2:12 on the 31st she states:
" I was under the impression I was asking about the morality not if this couple should have the state come get their kids to put them in often abusive foster care. The other responders made it clear this couple should not use any kind of birth control and that was all I was needing to know. I thank the other posters for answering the question and leaving out their diagnose of people they don’t know, who are already being treated, out of it." (ATTENTION stop here and listen to what the OP said)
Then hoosierdaddy you again reply and let her know it is wrong. (She already heard this several times)
Then, and here comes the turning point, someone says “I’m going to go so far as to say their sex lives makes a mockery of sacramental marriage, if what you say is true. This couple isn’t even trying to live their covenant if they aren’t respecting each other’s bodies”
This interjection was completely unnecessary and this is when Tina left the conversation. Tina did not say she left because she could not bear to hear your truth. However, instead of taking a look at how this conversation turned you all piously turned up your noses and said “Well, there’s another one that can’t take the truth” That statement was inflammatory. This couple is already carrying a ton of shame.
Then as far as I can remember. Everyone through up their arms and said tsk tsk another one who can’t handle the truth. If you really take a close look. I think it makes CAF look bad.