Lately I’ve noticed the number of my friends are finding boyfriends/girlfriends or even if they aren’t in relationships, are approached by members of their opposite sex all the time. The thing is guys don’t ever approach me or ask me out and I’m coming to wonder if there is something wrong or ugly or off about/with me.
Although I have made a vow to myself to wait for marriage until I have sex and seek to have a relationship that is true and meaningful with someone I love who is my equal, I sometimes highly doubt that marriage and/or a family will ever happen to me.
So I’ve been reflecting on whether God’s delays are really delays at all or whether they are His full denials. Maybe they are sign that as nothing has ever progressed in this aspect of my life, it’s His way of telling me that a relationship was not meant for you. Or perhaps even it’s not time for you to be in one. Honestly, I am unsure of whether His delays are his denials.
And not necessarily only in terms of boyfriends & girlfriends, but in any aspect of our lives…