My brother and sister in law have been members of a Catholic Church where they were married and have had their two girls baptized. This has been a very liberal Catholic Church where the priest didn’t want to specify that God is either male or female. The priest never used the words - In the name of the Father, and the Son and the Holy Spirit. He used some kind of non gender specific words when performing the sacrament of marriage and baptism.
Are the sacraments bestowed when the proper words of institution are not used?
Thank you for your help!