It is my understanding that as far as the Church is concerned they are equally important.
In my experience and observation, among practicing Catholics I have known, it is treated as if it is more important for women than men.
I heard my own mother discuss with an Aunt when I was a teen how she was relieved to find out her sons weren’t homosexual when she found out they were sexually active with their girlfriends, while at the same time she cried, screamed and prayed over any hint that her daughters might not be sexually pure.
Where I was growing up in a primarily Catholic environment and attending Catholic schools, the general reaction to it was “well, what are you going to do? Boys will be boys” and “Girls, if you do it you are a slut who no one will respect or want you ever, and if you get pregnant I will disown you”
That is how it was during the 70’s and 80’s when I was growing up in Chicago.