For example, say someone has aspergers, autism or depression or any other mental illness. How are they supposed to find someone. I know God has his ways, but sometimes it just seems impossible. For example, I have a friend who has Aspergers. While he is a great and devout man devoted to his faith and loves music, he wants to be married and feels he is called, but he just doesn’t have the social nuances needed to get a spouse.
What about people who are just too odd or too different, or that are sociall awkward. I’m not saying God has abandoned these people, but unless a few people I know have received the wrong callings, I feel like some people are just set up for heartbreak. So are some people who are called to marriage just setting themselves up for this. Or are they just not listening to god.