I’m not sure where to put this, but my main question is “Is it wrong to believe this?” so I thought I’d put it here.
My Grandma died in 2004, and was a strong German Catholic. I think about her sometimes, off and on, and used to pray the prayer on the back of the card my parents got at her funeral Mass (I was protestant). Recently it hit me that two years after her death was when everything started lining (sp?) up to push me towards the Catholic Church, and this week I wondered if her direct intercession was what might have pushed me (with the Holy Spirit of course). I’m now (or will be after Saturday) her only Catholic grandchild out of 12.
Then I remembered my mom had once told me she’d had four miscarriages, one between each pregnancy, and it hit me that I may have brothers and sisters in Heaven (which hit me very hard because I don’t have any brothers, I’m the only son).
My question is, is it wrong for me to believe my Grandma and siblings are in Heaven? Would it be wrong to ask St. Grandma Clara to interceede for me without formal proof?