Hi, I’ve been lurking for quite some time and finally decided to join and post. Tonight I wanted to post because I just had an argument with my husband that left me feeling like I cannot do anything right
We went to rent a movie and to buy some beer. When we were paying for the beer, he made a lame comment about me being 19. I look really young despite my age and the cashier at the store wouldn’t believe my license was mine, especially after he said I was 19. After we left, i told him to please not make those kind of comments again, especially when buying alcohol because one day they might fall for his lame jokes and decide not to sell me the drinks. When we got to the car I told him I wasn’t happy he said that because once when I was 22 I was in Nevada in the casinos, and the dealer would just stare and stare at my id and wouldn’t let me play because he thought my id was fake, he said I didn’t even look 18 and wouldn’t give me my id back. I got so angry that one time, I never went back again. But my husband just laughed and thought it was funny.
We got home and he was upset because he went straight into the kitchen and then to our bedroom. He came out to get his cell phone and I tried talking to him, but he flustered and went back to the room. Me, trying to make him happy, I made him a Mexican style beer with lime, salt and hot sauce since he just loves those Mexican drinks. Well, I went in trying to be all cutesy and he just flat out told me that if I didn’t want him to leave the house to leave him alone in the bedroom. Whenever he makes me mad, he comes after me and is all mushy trying to make me smile. I tried doing what he usually does with me, but he got more upset and I had to leave our room and came to the office crying. It’s been almost an hour and he’s still mad.
I feel like I can’t do anything right to please this man. I don’t think I did anything wrong for him to be this upset so I feel like a failure right now