Well my fiance and I are at 49 days before our wedding, and we have been doing a lot of talking and praying. We have become closer than ever before and it is amazing. In the past we had said we wanted to wait 5 to 6 years before having children, and now that we have really thought and prayed about it we really want children much sooner. We want to wait until about the end of next year, just to make sure I am stable in my position at work (our company has been going through some tough financial times right now, and we want to make sure that I don’t get laid off in the mean time). It was really eye opening, we talked about children and I was actually getting excited about being a father, I actually was thinking forward to hold my child the first time. Going to Pre Cana and then NFP classes and actually praying and talking about it has made both of us realize that we aren’t just open to having kids, we want them badly.