So there is this man who works in the office across from mine and he has caught my eye ever since I started working there. We have spoken a few times and I would like to get to know him better. I look forward to seeing him and I make sure to look extra nice in case we run into each other. I know that we have a few things in common like we are both from France so we speak to each other in French every now and then.
I know that he is single (thanks to facebook haha) and I would like to ask him to get a drink after work but I'm nervous. I am 25 and he is 43. Is that too much of an age gap? I also don't want to just out of nowhere ask him to get a drink and I put him in an awkward position because he is totally not interested.
I know that office dating is usually a no no but we don't work for the same company and my company is moving to a new location after the new year so we won't see each other in case things get weird.
He seems like a nice guy, I find him attractive, and he is accomplished. Do you think asking him out is just a bad idea? Should I wait for him to pursue me? Sometimes I worry he might not think I'm interested because he is much older. What is a good way to let him know I'm interested?
Any advice would be awesome! :thumbsup: