Mostly in terms of focus on appearance, I guess.
For example, if I have an hour to get ready in the morning, and I spend 20 minutes doing hair and makeup (in additions to getting dressed, making breakfast, ect) meaning that I have less time to say morning prayers (but I still say them) is that being overly vain?
Or if I stay up a later than usual trying to figure out clothing to wear, thus possibly damaging my health, is that overly vain?
If, let’s say I oversleep and end up looking bad all day, and I feel too uncomfortable in my own skin to be as productive as usual, is that placing too much worth on appearance and thus being overly vain?
I don’t want to let aesthetics rule my life, but on the other hand any time I try to really put less focus on my appearance, I just don’t like it; it doesn’t feel like I’m seeing the right person when I look in the mirror. I feel like I should confess having been vain, because I have spent quite a bit of time and effort on appearance, but I know I shouldn’t because I don’t really have real plans to change anything at the moment.