With all due respect you don’t know me and don’t know my heart or ears or mind. I think critically about what is said in Protestant services and sort out the good from the bad, I’m not saying it’s all bad, there is a lot they have in common with Catholics.
It’s not as simple as go if you want to, if you don’t don’t. That is why I posted all the conditions, and am open to what people say, within reason.
What is the reason my wife and kids can go? Again, my wife is going solely to greet, not to worship or take part in the service, and my daughter is 3 years old. My in-laws have subtly said many times they want us to convert and want to show us off as potential converts. They respect my wife’s conversion, but still are holding out hope for her.