I am attending my sister's bachelorette party in the next few months. It is going to be a very "clean" party (i.e. no strippers, etc). We're all Catholic fortunately! I was wondering if anyone had any opinions on the giving of honeymoon lingerie to the bride? I was given a lot at my bach. party, and most of the "scanty" little lace up numbers I never wear except on special occasions. I was thinking (to avoid my modest sister's embarrassment) of giving her a modest teddie/robe set and some warmer PJs (winter Feb. wedding with honeymoon in the North). I think the over-sexed lingerie is ridiculous, but I want her to have some nice pretty sleepwear to celebrate her and hubby's first time together. Do you think this is a good idea? Am I too "prudish" in wanting to avoid the "porn star" type lingerie in favor of a sexy but more modest (and comfortable) sleepwear celebration of a honeymoon? I know my friends gave me sexy little pieces because it would be my first time ever having sex (on my honeymoon) and it's the same case with my sister, but I don't want to send the message that you have to look like a porn star to share that moment with your husband.
On a side note, I was also going to get her a book by Christopher West on marriage. :)