Ok this maybe a silly question.
I am getting married a few weeks. My fiance and I both have occasional back pain. When I moved here like 9 months ago I bought a pillow mattress topper to help me back, so basically I like sink into the bed. I LOVE It, but my fiance has taken a nap here and says it is not firm enough and it hurts his back. We are not rich and cannot afford a sleep number bed. I thought about cutting my topper in half or trading off nights with it on one night and off the other but wondered if anyone had any other advice.