My family just moved into my husbands childhood home. His father is in an assisted living home and we are buying the house to help pay for this.
My problem is that there has been 35 years of anger and saddness in this house. My son (who is now so sad and lonely all of the time) and husband(who is so angry and down) and me ( all I want to do is sleep -which is what I do when I am down) we all feel so different when we come home. When we are out at work or school or just shopping we are all pretty happy people.
I noticed this feeling when I was just visiting this house and my husbands parents were still living here. My husband would be so mean and angry to his parents and they to each other. But my husband is really a gentle loving man.
My son is in need of some help so I decided to get him therapy. He is a great person with a heart of gold. And to see him so sad it is hard to know what to do.