Everyone in this world has had a crush on someone at one point in there life. God created us that way. Enough said.
We all know what the tingly warm feeling is when that cute guy/girl walks by or says something. They have to be the most amazing looking person ever.! The way they walk, talk, smile, and even the way they frown. They are just the most important thing to you at this time and you just can’t stop thinking about it.
But is it love.? Can you honestly say that oneday, you want to marry this person, have children with them, share a home with them, provide for them, and take care of them for the rest of your entire life.?
Not just until your out of highschool. Not just until your out of college. Not just until she comes to you and says “I’m pregnant.”
To be in love, is to honestly be able to say, “I Do.” I do want to marry you. I do want to have your children. I do want to share this home with you. I do want to finish highschool with you. I do want to finish college with you. I do want to live the rest of my life with you, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.
Then and only then can you honestly say that you love someone.
You also need to realize, a relationship will never work until the end, unless you have Christ walking with you.
Some people might say that a human beings objective in life is to earn as much money possible before they die. Make it through college. Have kids and be able to send them to school. Lose your innocence before you die. Make it through Senior Prom. Get that awsome vehicle that you’ve always dreamed of getting.
There are all kinds of things that people have as there life’s objective. And these are most of them. But let me ask you this. Why try your hardest to get all the money in the world, when greed will earn you nothing but shame and pity? Do you really want people to see you as Mr. or Miss Scrouge? What use is getting an awsome vehicle when you have to spend all that money that you earned, to show off something that no one cares about? Whats so great about going to Senior Prom? Isn’t it just like any other highschool dance where the people that you want to hang out with you still won’t hang out with you, especially if your the one to win prom queen.
Now, the things like sending your kids off to school and making it through college are great achievements! But they should never be our life’s objective.
Christ, and Christ alone, is the key to success. Without him, you would not be reading this. He created you. And if there was no you, you wouldn’t be worried about any of this. God gave us the most wonderful gift anyone in the world could ever imagine. Can you think of what it is? He gave us his only begotten son. He was conceived by the Holy Spirit and born of the VIRGIN Mary and became man.
The word virgin brings me to a pause. Today, in the world of 2007 being a virgin is one of the lowest class things ever. Dumb,stupid,and sooo little kiddish.
But thats not true. Lets think about this for a minute. When your married, you can have sex with your spouse right. But only with your spouse, am I correct… (the reader says to themselves… yes nicole…)
Ok, so if your married, you are only suppost to have sex with your spouse. Your not even suppost to kiss or touch someone else in any kind of way if your married right. (the reader says to themselves…yes nicole…)
Ok. Well then what if I told you that you have been married all your life. It doesn’t matter whether you are a boy or a girl, you have been married your entire life. I know what your saying. You think I’m crazy. But I’m not. You have been married to Christ all your life. Deal with it. Its the truth whether you choose to believe it or not.
Therefore, as we agreed to before, your innocence or virginity belongs to HIM.
Its plain and simple. Thats how it is. But Christ is not your ordinary spouse. He wants you to be with someone else too. He went and he hid someone here on this Earth just for you. Only for you.
Gasps… You have no idea who this person is or how to find him… This is where Christ steps in again, in an almost bigger and more powerful way this time. You are now on your journey to find your TRUE LOVE. This is going to take lots of time.
P.S… just a little hint, you cannot find this person without Christ.
There will come some person that you will want to go out with and they are gonna want to go out with you… But, you have to think to yourself before hand. Is this a person that I am willing to spend the rest of my life with. If you think yes, and you want to try and see where it leads, then go for it. But remember, you are still physically married to Christ and your body belongs only to you and him. Also remember. Your objective in a relationship, is to try your hardest to bring that person closer to Christ. And if you are doing that and listening for God to tell you what to do, he will tell you the rest. But if you are not interested in the idea of oneday marrying this person, then obey your husband and find someone else. For your heart is your own, but it is shared with Christ, and he to must agree on your decisions.