I need some Catholic advice on this subject. I was suffering through some depression last year, and this guy started talking to me. I thought he was nice, so played along. He made me feel happy, which was something that just wasn’t there. We ended up started dating. He would make sexual remarks to me. I just thought it was a joke, so I laughed and didn’t think about it. He would go through different stages. He would be really sweet and loving, then he would make some sort of remark that hurt my feelings. He told everyone that we were going sleep together, and he pretty much forced me to do things I didn’t want to do. We didn’t take things all the way, but if I would have stayed in the relationship he would have tried to get me into bed. I was in a way brainwashed. He was giving me instant gratification, and I liked it. He took me away from my friends, and most importantly he took me away from my morals. I feel really ashamed that I fell for his act. Luckily, I got out of the relationship before it got too serious. We broke up on bad terms. I went to Confession, and the priest told me I should try to make amends with him. I sent him a message online, and he, his new online girlfriend, and her friend sent me threatening messages. I reported him to my principal, and she told me not to associate with him anymore. She talked to him, and he has left me alone. Now, I’m in a relationship with another guy. He’s very moral-driven and caring, and he wants to be pure until marriage. He wants me to confront my ex boyfriend. He sees how much this is hurting me, and he wants to try to let me get over it. I’m scared. There is still a lot of anger towords my ex boyfriend, and i can’t control myself around him. I don’t know what to do. If you can, would you please pray that God will lead me in the right thing to do?
Any advice? I need some help.
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