I have been seeing this guy for a couple months now and when we met he said he has the intention of finding his true love and marrying her and starting a family. That is his dream and mine is a little different. I do like him a lot he’s a great guy and everything perfect marriage material but I am 20 years old it makes me feel like if I want to keep this great guy I am supposed to marry him and start a family when I am finished school. I will be 23 at that point and I know I won’t be ready for all that.
I am terrified to be starting a family and getting right when my life is about to begin. If I wasn’t in school right now I know for a fact he would have asked by now. I am not saying I never want to get married and have a family I just know that I don’t want to do it too soon. My dream is to get my career going and put all my hard work to good use. Has anyone else ever been in a similar situation?