You’ve helped me so much on the other threads, I thought I’d set this situation before you and ask for input.
I will have five attendents for my wedding: my three little sisters, my soon to be sister-in-law living way out of state, and my childhood friend living several hours away.
I’ve been asked about and people keep referring to when I’ll have a shower. And that’s where it gets sticky…
My maid of honor is my little sister–she’s 16, so her hosting a shower is out–the same for my other even younger sisters. My childhood friend doesn’t want to host one. And I know it’s out of the question for my sister-in-law.
Ok, so here are the questions:
If my mom feels like I should have a shower, is it alright for her to host it with my sisters? (She asked me find out about this.)
What do I say to people when they ask me if I’m having a shower? I don’t want to throw a pity party. I mean–I’d love to have a shower, but I’ll be perfectly alright without one…
Oh, and having a shower at work is out too…I’m an engineer and work with predominantly guys… Although I do wonder what kind of a shower they’d come up with???
As for aunts–we’ve never been very close. And most of my friends are out of state.