First, I do appreciate you lengthy reply…I realize this took a bit of time, and I appreciate what I feel is your honest response.
Second, to your first point: It does seem as there will be no end describing all systems as “racist”, using your definitions. I think our systems can be improved, but the continual description of them as being “racist,” implies they must be totally changed. EX: I think our capitalist system is good, but can be improved. Some people using your definition want to totally change that to some form of socialism.
Third, I do find it interesting that many people who use your definitions of racism, see disparate impacts of financial or education systems on minorities, but seem quite passive on the disparate impact of abortion (including Planned Parenthood, and their racist founder Margaret Sanger).
To tie all of this back to the thread, I find all forms of identity politics to be divisive.